Two realizations I had while in the shower:

1. Self confidence is bullshit. All I have to do to exude self confidence is swing my arms when I walk, smile, look people in the eyes, and hold my head up. That's it. For all they know, it's a shell.

2. The amount of time people know each other doesn't dictate how much they care about each other. Different intestity, different caring abilities...levels...It's hard to really put all my thoughts down concerning this one.